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“The only shame in masturbation is the shame of not doing it well.” – Sigmund Freud ***** When this quote was forwarded to me as a suggestion for this week's prompt, I will admit to pausing and wondering if I should use it. The quote can be broken down and looked at in many ways and the reason I opted to use it was for me personally masturbation needs to be spoken about more and more importantly the stigma around it. So I decided to go ahead and use it. There still is so much stigma attached to masturbation, even now in 2021(!!!) which in itself should be shameful to even write. But sadly, accurate. Personally, I find there is more stigma attached to it when someone speaks about a person who is female or was assigned female at birth. If you have a cock, it seems to be your god given right to have a wank and shout about it. However, I refer back to my tweets a few weeks back that I shouldn't be using the words 'wank' or 'jack off' because I, myself, don't have a cock between my legs, which in my opinion, is a load of horse shit. My thoughts, my opinions, and my choice to use whichever set of words I feel fit. Women and folks that have been assigned female at birth suffer huge erasure when it comes to pleasure in general but even more so when it comes to masturbation. I even find it seems ok for us to use toys because the industry has literally boomed but when it comes to actually getting in touch with yourself, learning what your body tick seems to still have a very shushy shushy vibe to it yet the act of self care is widely promoted. Masturbation is self care - touching your body and knowing what makes you tick is self care. Passing all those tips onto your partner(s) is self care! Full disclosure, I hadn't ever heard of Sigmund Freud when this quote was forwarded to me. I read the words and I pondered if folks truly would have something to say about them. While I see what is wrong with the quote, I equally see a positive side too. To me I see “The only shame in masturbation is the shame of not doing it well" as a way that you should be trying different things to figure out what works for you.. ie. if you try x, y or z and it doesn't get off well maybe you need to go back and try a. I am fully aware the wording of the quote is wrong and using the word shame adds a very different tone to the quote. To fully understand Freud, I did go reading a little bit about him and decided to swiftly close the page after I read something on the lines of women being disadvantaged because they don't have a penis. So yeah… I won't be doing any more digging on him. Anyway, back to the quote - long story short, we are all entitled to pleasure regardless of how we identify or what is between our legs. Shame and masturbation should never go together in the same sentence unless that sentence is - "break the shame associated with masturbation".

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by LSB June 14, 2021

June 14, 2021 0 comment

I’m a fan of penis pumps due to enjoying the sensation they can give me when in use and so when combined with a masturbator it surely has to make…

ArcWave Ion Stroker | Guest Review

by LSB April 6, 2021

April 6, 2021 0 comment

I first saw the Arcwave Ion in 2020 via the promo video for it on YouTube and couldn’t help but be intrigued by such a flashy video and what sort…

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Leten Future 708 Pro Thrusting Automatic Masturbator

by LSB February 23, 2021

February 23, 2021 0 comment

When a toy needs to be plugged in, you know it means business! I had no idea when I signed us up to test the Leten Future 708 Pro Thrusting…

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Rebel Surge, Rocks-Off special edition

by LSB February 15, 2021

February 15, 2021 0 comment

I’m always interested in new and unique toys or just those that are different especially toys that can be 2 in 1. Having already reviewed an anal toy that also…

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You2Toys Push It Thrusting Vibrator

by LSB February 7, 2021

February 7, 2021 0 comment

I’m no stranger to anal toys and when I’m in the right mood I love things that go in my butt, from basic plugs, tailed plugs to prostate vibes/massagers, and…

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Tenga Flip Zero EV Black Strong Edition

by LSB January 18, 2021

January 18, 2021 1 comment

Having reviewed several Tenga products I’ve found they are well designed and provide great pleasure even if some don’t look like your typical masturbators.One of these reviews was from their…

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You2Toys Remote Controlled Cock Ring

by LSB January 11, 2021

January 11, 2021 1 comment

I own many penis rings (7/8?) in my collection, and as someone single I find them to work well when masturbating and especially when you add a toy into the…

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You2Toys Power Rotation Masturbator

by LSB December 29, 2020

December 29, 2020 0 comment

Ever since I started using sex toys around 7 years ago I’ve always had this idea that spinning/rotating would be great for penis stimulation. While I did get to experience…

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Sex 101: Beginners guide to Penis Masturbators

by LSB December 4, 2020

December 4, 2020 0 comment

Finally, we starting to reach a time where penis masturbators are catching up with the rest of the world of sex toys! Up until not so recently the market was…

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Rebel Ultra Soft Vibrating Silicone Masturbator

by LSB November 11, 2020

November 11, 2020 0 comment

Vibrating penis masturbators are the one toy I’ve always wanted to love but in the 7 years that I’ve been using sex toys there hasn’t been one that had impressed…