Penis Pump Archives • LittleSwitchBitch

“The only shame in masturbation is the shame of not doing it well.” – Sigmund Freud ***** When this quote was forwarded to me as a suggestion for this week's prompt, I will admit to pausing and wondering if I should use it. The quote can be broken down and looked at in many ways and the reason I opted to use it was for me personally masturbation needs to be spoken about more and more importantly the stigma around it. So I decided to go ahead and use it. There still is so much stigma attached to masturbation, even now in 2021(!!!) which in itself should be shameful to even write. But sadly, accurate. Personally, I find there is more stigma attached to it when someone speaks about a person who is female or was assigned female at birth. If you have a cock, it seems to be your god given right to have a wank and shout about it. However, I refer back to my tweets a few weeks back that I shouldn't be using the words 'wank' or 'jack off' because I, myself, don't have a cock between my legs, which in my opinion, is a load of horse shit. My thoughts, my opinions, and my choice to use whichever set of words I feel fit. Women and folks that have been assigned female at birth suffer huge erasure when it comes to pleasure in general but even more so when it comes to masturbation. I even find it seems ok for us to use toys because the industry has literally boomed but when it comes to actually getting in touch with yourself, learning what your body tick seems to still have a very shushy shushy vibe to it yet the act of self care is widely promoted. Masturbation is self care - touching your body and knowing what makes you tick is self care. Passing all those tips onto your partner(s) is self care! Full disclosure, I hadn't ever heard of Sigmund Freud when this quote was forwarded to me. I read the words and I pondered if folks truly would have something to say about them. While I see what is wrong with the quote, I equally see a positive side too. To me I see “The only shame in masturbation is the shame of not doing it well" as a way that you should be trying different things to figure out what works for you.. ie. if you try x, y or z and it doesn't get off well maybe you need to go back and try a. I am fully aware the wording of the quote is wrong and using the word shame adds a very different tone to the quote. To fully understand Freud, I did go reading a little bit about him and decided to swiftly close the page after I read something on the lines of women being disadvantaged because they don't have a penis. So yeah… I won't be doing any more digging on him. Anyway, back to the quote - long story short, we are all entitled to pleasure regardless of how we identify or what is between our legs. Shame and masturbation should never go together in the same sentence unless that sentence is - "break the shame associated with masturbation".

You2Toys Vibrating multi-pump and masturbator

by LSB June 14, 2021

June 14, 2021 0 comment

I’m a fan of penis pumps due to enjoying the sensation they can give me when in use and so when combined with a masturbator it surely has to make…

Rebel Automatic Penis Pump

by LSB October 29, 2020

October 29, 2020 1 comment

Penis pumps are not new to me, and my current choice of pump is a Bathmate Hydromax. While I enjoy the Bathmate, the fact that it needs to be used…

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Vibrating Glans Sucker Review

by LSB October 18, 2020

October 18, 2020 0 comment

When I buy toys or get the chance to pick them for review, there’s usually a reason behind why I picked a particular one. For the Vibrating Glans Sucker though,…

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Tenga Vacuum Controller Review (and TENGA Hole Warmer)

by LSB March 22, 2019

March 22, 2019 0 comment

Did you read my Suck-O-Mat review? A sex machine that claims to give handsfree blowjobs. If you did you will already know how gutted I was because it doesn’t live…

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Suck-O-Mat Ultimate Blow Job Masturbator Review

by LSB March 8, 2019

March 8, 2019 3 comments

I love giving blowjobs… No scratch that… I love giving my OH blowjobs. I am defining that statement as previous to him, it really wouldn’t be something I enjoyed for…

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Pipedream PDX Elite Deluxe Mega Bator Review

by LSB September 30, 2018

September 30, 2018 4 comments

The Pipedream PDX Elite Deluxe Mega Bator – now that certainly is a mouthful to say. But what exactly is it? And more importantly, do you need one? The Pipedream PDX Elite…