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Xou Xou vibrating cumshot rabbit vibrator review

by LSB June 21, 2021

June 21, 2021 0 comment

When it comes to rabbit vibrators I’ve always associated them as more for those with a vulva, but when I was offered one to review in place of a different…

“The only shame in masturbation is the shame of not doing it well.” – Sigmund Freud ***** When this quote was forwarded to me as a suggestion for this week's prompt, I will admit to pausing and wondering if I should use it. The quote can be broken down and looked at in many ways and the reason I opted to use it was for me personally masturbation needs to be spoken about more and more importantly the stigma around it. So I decided to go ahead and use it. There still is so much stigma attached to masturbation, even now in 2021(!!!) which in itself should be shameful to even write. But sadly, accurate. Personally, I find there is more stigma attached to it when someone speaks about a person who is female or was assigned female at birth. If you have a cock, it seems to be your god given right to have a wank and shout about it. However, I refer back to my tweets a few weeks back that I shouldn't be using the words 'wank' or 'jack off' because I, myself, don't have a cock between my legs, which in my opinion, is a load of horse shit. My thoughts, my opinions, and my choice to use whichever set of words I feel fit. Women and folks that have been assigned female at birth suffer huge erasure when it comes to pleasure in general but even more so when it comes to masturbation. I even find it seems ok for us to use toys because the industry has literally boomed but when it comes to actually getting in touch with yourself, learning what your body tick seems to still have a very shushy shushy vibe to it yet the act of self care is widely promoted. Masturbation is self care - touching your body and knowing what makes you tick is self care. Passing all those tips onto your partner(s) is self care! Full disclosure, I hadn't ever heard of Sigmund Freud when this quote was forwarded to me. I read the words and I pondered if folks truly would have something to say about them. While I see what is wrong with the quote, I equally see a positive side too. To me I see “The only shame in masturbation is the shame of not doing it well" as a way that you should be trying different things to figure out what works for you.. ie. if you try x, y or z and it doesn't get off well maybe you need to go back and try a. I am fully aware the wording of the quote is wrong and using the word shame adds a very different tone to the quote. To fully understand Freud, I did go reading a little bit about him and decided to swiftly close the page after I read something on the lines of women being disadvantaged because they don't have a penis. So yeah… I won't be doing any more digging on him. Anyway, back to the quote - long story short, we are all entitled to pleasure regardless of how we identify or what is between our legs. Shame and masturbation should never go together in the same sentence unless that sentence is - "break the shame associated with masturbation".

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You2Toys Vibrating multi-pump and masturbator

by LSB June 14, 2021

June 14, 2021 0 comment

I’m a fan of penis pumps due to enjoying the sensation they can give me when in use and so when combined with a masturbator it surely has to make…

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Lovehoney Sensual Glass Glow in the Dark Dildo and Butt Plug

by LSB June 8, 2021

June 8, 2021 0 comment

I don’t think my inner witch has ever screamed or is that cackled with delight at the sight of these beauties. The Lovehoney Sensual Glass Glow in the Dark Dildo…

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by LSB June 4, 2021

June 4, 2021 1 comment

I don’t think I have ever procrastinated over a post more than I have for the Big Bang Penetrator. It’s not that I don’t have tonnes to say because I…

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ArcWave Ion Air Pleasure Stroker

by LSB May 25, 2021

May 25, 2021 0 comment

I have long enjoyed all the pleasure my Womanizers have given me – even my husband has experienced the sensations of air pleasure, and has reported having enjoyed the experience.…

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Lovense Diamo Bluetooth AppControlled Cock Ring

by LSB May 21, 2021

May 21, 2021 0 comment

The Lovense Diamo is the very first wearable penis-orientated toy from Lovense. It is a Bluetooth-compatible cock ring so like other Lovense toys it too can be app-controlled. The overall…

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by LSB May 20, 2021

May 20, 2021 0 comment

I find realistic life-size dolls fascinating but due to their size amongst other reasons, I would never like to own one. Despite this I have always been curious about realistic…

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Lelo Enigma Dual Action Sonic Massager

by LSB May 17, 2021

May 17, 2021 2 comments

I am an utter pleasure seeker. I guess while a drug user is constantly chasing that first high, I am constantly chasing the next big orgasm. Sexual pleasure and receiving…

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Tenga Aero – adjustable suction masturbator

by LSB May 13, 2021

May 13, 2021 0 comment

We love Tenga’s new releases in this house and this time we have the utter joy of testing out Tenga’s brand new Aero – an adjustable suction masturbator, which already…

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Lovense Lush 3

by LSB May 10, 2021

May 10, 2021 0 comment

Since I have started reviewing toys, even way before I had a blog I have seen reviewers rave on about how amazing the Lovense Lush is. A while back I…

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