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Sex 101: Beginners guide to Penis Masturbators

posted by LSB December 4, 2020 0 comments

Finally, we starting to reach a time where penis masturbators are catching up with the rest of the world of sex toys! Up until not so recently the market was totally dominated by toys that are mostly aimed at vulva owners. However, that is really starting to change, and damn right it should too!

So you have decided now is the time! You finally want to take the plunge ( Ooerr 😉 ) and buy your very own toy but haven’t a clue where to start, well this post is a Beginners Guide to Penis Masturbators and I am hoping to be able to help you make that choice 🙂

Fleshlights

Image belongs to Fleshlight

Fleshlights are designed to be completed inconspicuous – the kind of toy that can be there beside without no one really being able to spot what it is! They are usually vulva faced though there are butt versions available too! The insides are full of lots of lumps, bumps, nooks, and crannies. I have been told they feel damn close to the real thing too. They are usually made of TPE so need a lot of care to keep them in good condition and the addition of the lid means it can be popped on after to use to prevent spills and for easy cleanup!

Image belongs to Fleshlight

On a side note: Recently we actually got sent an actual Fleshlight for review, (which I’ll link when it goes live) but the same week, we got a generic version of the fleshlight too but by complete coincidence. I have actually since decided to do a comparative review of the two – again I will link when it goes live.

 
Buy your original Fleshlight here or get a cheaper version of it here.

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Vibrating Masturbators/ Strokers

Image belongs to Tenga

 

The range of vibrating masturbators is huge and I mean HUGE! We have gotten to test out quite a lot of them throughout the years and the Tenga range and honestly this is where my recommendations go! My OH is a TENGA worshipper and it really will take something special to steal that crown. The Tenga EV range is far superior to anything we have tried – though they have a hefty price tag.

Image belongs to Hot Octopuss

There are also open-style strokers to like the Hot Octopuss Pulse range which use oscillations like the Eroscillator does so they do feel like vibrations but do differ slightly. The open style flexible wings of the Hot Octopuss Pulse range means they accommodate any size or girth. And this version can also be used with a partner as the underside vibrates 😉

Image belongs to The Handy

You can also get interactive versions too – like The Handy, which can sync with porn, which I must admit we have so much fun with it! This stroker actually plugs in too, so it is quite powerful!

And last but not least they are strokers like the Godemiche OffBeat that are made from just plain old silicone or you can get Tenga versions that don’t vibrate too. These kind of strokers focus more on sensations allow the user to experience different textures.

Get your Hot Octopuss Pulse here or get a Handy here.
If interested, you can purchase a WHITE Tenga Flip Zero Electric Vibration here  or the BLACK Tenga Flip Zero Electric Vibration here. 
You can get your very own OFFBEAT here 

 

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Penis Pumps/ Suction Toys

Image belongs to Lovehoney

There are a significant amount of penis pumps on the market from ones that claim to help make you longer, girthier etc. We have tried many over the years from the very cheapy basic styles to vibrating ones. And in all honestly, I really cannot tell you they actually do what they claim. My OH enjoys them from a pressure point of view – I think he likes the constant pull sensation you can experience from using them. I love him using them from an aesthetic point of view as I find it super hot watching him get tugged and pressed against the ABS plastic case.

The vibrating versions have been more interesting from a user perspective – they add another element of sensation to the experience and give many more options for different types of play. We had fun with the ‘disco stick’ – Pipedream PDX Elite Deluxe Mega Bator – it was kinda like watching my OH bang a disco ball from the light perspective – I honestly did giggle. A lot.

If it is something you are keen to try, I would recommend starting with one that isn’t so basic as the edges around the base can be often sharp on cheaper versions, yes I am speaking from experience!

Suction toys are similar to penis pumps because they too suck on you, and like pumps they can vibrate too. We recently got to test out a vibrating suction toy, which also has built-in audio function which I must admit produced more giggles than orgasms but giggles are definitely needed too. Penis pumps are more classed as ‘making you bigger’ while suction toys are more pleasure focused. In all honesty, it is more down to the user perspective in my opinion. There really is very little difference in the sensation they produce – pumps would be more intense with the level of suction they produce in my opinion.

Get your own penis pump or suction toys here

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Fleshy Sex Dolls/ Body Parts

Image belongs to Lovehoney

Ah I kinda love these – and that is totally from a selfish visual user perspective! Watching my OH bang a sex doll is honestly so much fun and hot AF. They are made from TPE meaning they feel super realistic. They bounce back when you pinch, slap or grab their flesh and also double up as awesome stress balls.

Image belongs to Lovehoney

There are literally so many versions you can get – vulva, ass, and tits all merged into one… Just butts, just tits, ones with mouths built-in! The list is endless and there is pretty much a version for everyone. I would keep an eye on the price as they are made from TPE and some of them can be overly oily and tacky and just ugh so read reviews and do your homework before splashing your cash!

 

Get your own life like sex doll here

Cock Rings

beginner sex toy kit

Image belongs to Lovehoney

Last but certainly not least I cannot leave cock rings out! Cock rings are known to be there to stop your penis-wielding partner from cumming but really they are more than just that! Cock rings provide pleasure to folks involved, even if you are just jacking off alone. Depending on the type you use – vibrations, electric, tighten to extremes or even be controllable by another person, cock rings can do more than just prolonging ejaculation.

Image belongs to Tenga

You can get a set of multiple sizes, which personally I recommend as the best place to start. However, if you know you want to try vibrations…. We have tried many versions over the years and I keep shouting about the Tenga SVR, especially if your partner is a vulva owner who enjoys rumbly vibrations. It is a seriously awesome toy that also doubles up as an awesome clit vibe.

Get the silicone cock ring set here
or splash out on the SVR cock ring here

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Did my Penis Masturbators guide help you out? Let me know in the comments below 🙂

Check out more of my Sex 101 Series here

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