Sinful Sunday

How I flirt…!

posted by LSB November 28, 2020 10 Comments

I think the eyes flirt most. There are so many ways to use them.”

Anna Held

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Here’s the funny thing about flirting. I really can’t do it! I’m an utter shit flirt. One – if you are flirting with me, chances are I won’t notice. I grew up with a next-door neighbour, who apparently fancied the pants of me all throughout our childhood but I never noticed. Everyone else did though, even my own bloody mother noticed, while I clearly wore blinkers and swanned around oblivious to him and his advances.
Now as an adult, I am more receptive to others flirting with me, kinda. There’s a guy in our local supermarket who makes it so obvious when we go there, even my children have spotted it so I guess I have to notice that but overall, I really won’t!

My OH will often point out women he has clicked that are flirting. Though my OH also has the ability to spot when I am into another woman too and really seems to be in tune with the kind of person I attracted to and will often know and have it pointed out to me before I have even realised I am doing anything myself. The joys of being an open book I guess LOL…!

Me flirting though – I’m so bad. It often happens here, online. And more often than not, it is women I am flirting with. I am very happily married so honestly, I don’t usually flirt with men. Of course, there is always an exception but overall, women will grab my attention more and I always look like a bubbling idiot who can’t spell or type. I am embarrassingly shite and when I get excited and over flirtatious, I typo realllllly bad. Like I don’t mean to but it happens. A lot. 😬

I do enjoy flirting though and will happily engage in saucy, flirty texting with my husband, which often ends up being a filthy gif compilation by the time we finish. Foreplay as he calls it in jest, which I guess in a way he is right. He is most definitely a far better flirt than I am. I am most definitely a – use body language kind of flirt… My eyes give me away. There is a naughty glint in them. Followed by my lips. I tend to bite them and if there is connection there, I will most likely reach out to you too… I am more direct with body language and movement rather than words…

an image of a women, naked,  in a white shirt

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10 Comments

Muse November 29, 2020 at 1:29 pm

I have no idea when it comes to flirting gorgeous white shirt shot, nothing sexier if you ask me x

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JerBear November 29, 2020 at 1:45 pm

THAT, would work on me. Beautiful photo.

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Victoria Blisse November 29, 2020 at 2:35 pm

Lovely, flirtatious image. I’m a bit clueless with flirting too. My hubs points stuff out to me allllll the time *LOL*

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Modesty Ablaze November 29, 2020 at 5:55 pm

Well your open shirt is very, very, SEXY body-language !!!
Xxx – K

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Mrs Fever November 29, 2020 at 9:16 pm

Oh, yes — I totally ‘get’ the “blinders on” thing. If other people are into me, I will never know it unless they tell me straight out. Flirtatiousness is lost on me.

And I’m with you on the eyes giving you away. It’s more of an arousal thing than a flirtation thing (for me), but if I want you, you’ll see it on my eyes. When my hubby sees a certain glint in my eyes, he’s like “I’m ready!” *laugh* I don’t even have to say anything; he just knows.

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Tabitha Rayne November 30, 2020 at 1:49 pm

Oh my, absolutely nothing beats seeing beautiful breasts beneath an opened shirt..
*Bites fist*

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Julie November 30, 2020 at 5:34 pm

Sexy, sexy photo. I love that you are oblivious to people flirting with you. As far as I know men have rarely flirted with me. so maybe…

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Bee November 30, 2020 at 6:06 pm

This is making me giggle, my OH also knows when I have a thing for someone but then we have very similar tastes so that may help.

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Molly November 30, 2020 at 9:22 pm

We should Skype again…. last time you blushed quite a few times if I remember rightly

Molly

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violet fawkes December 2, 2020 at 8:20 pm

i beg to differ … you are a great flirt! this pic is proof!

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