“A lively discussion is usually helpful, because the hottest fire makes the hardest steel.” ― Tom Clancy
This week’s Kink of the Week is all about being discussed. Of course, this is meant in a positive way! And of course, mostr likely a filthy, hot way too.
I have never experienced someone speaking directly about me to someone else in a sex or even kink kinda way however, that isn’t to say I don’t find the idea of it extremely hot because I do. Even if we were never to share eachother with someone even the thought of my OH telling someone how I please him, how my mouth feels or even how I feel when I clench around him honestly gives me all sorts of feels.
When the words “You’re such a good girl” are said to me while I give my OH a blowjob honestly makes the experience which I find hot anyway, even hotter. I do think my OH has realised that I get even more enthusiastic and into twhatever we happen to me doing even more when he says those words.
I feel for me when he vocalises how I am pleasing him or even when he speaks about me to me as if he were speaking to someone else, it is as if he is telling them how he likes it and I am doing my job right. My job is to please him and it is very much tied into my submission to him. We may not be a typical D/s couple however, I still have a deep want to keep him happy and hearing his voice express that pleases me. It not only gets me off but it allows to me enjoy what we are doing even more so because I know he is enjoying it too.
Which leads me back to this week’s Kink of the Week topic, being discussed… yes I do find it hot. And I also think going down the line if we do venture down the road of sharing eachother, I think him telling them how I please him will get me off… I think it will equaklly get him off too. Or even us talking about how we will please him. *dies*
Mmmmmm!! The possibilities…..