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BDSM Diaries: Using Electrostimulation for Solo and Partnered Sex

posted by LSB July 13, 2020 1 Comment

When I started writing this post a few months back – we weren’t as active in kink as we are now. In fact, kink has definitely come back with a bang, quite literally 😉 Yeahhhh, I went there 😀 I suggested getting out the Flick Duo kit again to have some Electrostimulation fun (mainly because I really needed to finish this post) and I am delighted I did because one. we have started to use it so much now, it actually lives on my desk now and two. it encouraged kinky times again. <3

All of what I originally started this post still stands though so I opted to leave it in… Our dynamic has changed. I have a post in the drafts, once it goes live – I’ll link it!

BDSM Diaries: Using Electrostimulation for Solo and Partnered Sex

Our electrostimulation journey started quite some time ago. When we originally signed up to try out some products, we were a lot more into the ‘lifestyle’ than we are now. We have moved house, changed jobs and blah, life got in the way and we ended up not being really in a D/s relationship anymore. To be honest, I am not really sure what we are in that regard so this post comes from the background of two people who enjoy pleasure as well as pain, one enjoys receiving pain while the other enjoys both the giving and the receiving. Basically, if you are not into BDSM (or maybe you are) either way, I want you to know that electric play DOES NOT have to be used in a kink way – ie. discipline, torture etc. It is very much a pleasurable experience that can be very squishy, cuddly, and dare I say even vanilla.

Our Electrostim journey started a while back with the Neon Wand and once, I was reassured I wasn’t going to be killed with electricity – we progressed onto the Electrastim Flick Duo.

The Flick Duo actually has tons of potential as a starting point on its own. So what comes with it?



– 1 x ElectraStim Flick Duo EM80 Stimulator
– 4 x Uni-Polar ElectraPads
– 2 x Connecting wires with 2mm pin connectors
– 1 x Charging cable
– 1 x Storage pouch
– A 1-year warranty, extendable to 3 years when you register your purchase.

and rather than me telling you the exact product features, I am going to let the experts do that, from the ElectraStim Website.

Product Features:

– 4 x patented (GB2499585) “Flick” motion-activated features
– Dual channels – powers twice as many electrodes as a single-channel stimulator
– Independent intensity control for each channel
– Rechargeable via USB – no batteries required
– Up to 6 hours use between charges
– Low battery indicator
– 8 stimulation settings including continuous stimulation, pulsation, and escalation
– 25 intensity levels
– Soft-touch control unit with push buttons and LED display
– Compact, handheld size

I wanted to learn how to get the Flick Duo to work for me before I tried it with my OH and before the days of Covid and my children were at school, I had plenty of free quiet time to do just that.

Solo Fun:

I was genuinely blown away by the strength of my orgasms while using the Flick Duo. Like I knew it had to bring something to table otherwise folks wouldn’t be raving on about it as much as they do but I wasn’t expecting leg trembling that turns them to jelly kinda orgasms.

I placed the sticky pads at either side of my labia majora, down from clit. I actually tried higher up, closer to my clit but that doesn’t feel great to me. Anyway, so pads are on and tingly. I insert a dildo and grab the pump and start that working too. I actually tried to pump first then tried to insert a dildo but there was no way that dildo was going in so trial and error helped to discover which way works best. So the pump is working away – I higher the intensity and with my other hand start to thrust. Once the pump has been on a while, it will hold its position long enough for me to increase the Flick again.

I can tolerate the Flick Duo quite high when I solo play in comparison to partnered fun – not exactly sure why that is, but there is quite a difference in the levels. I can tolerate really high levels on my own – say 16, 17, or even 18 which is high because the Flick only goes to 25.  My OH can max it out on his own but together…. Well, I will tell you all about that in a minute.

Overall for me and solo play – I *really* enjoyed the addition of the electro play and in fact, when I have spare time when I know I won’t be disturbed the Flick comes out because it really is worth the time and those orgasms it gives me are EPIC!

Partnered Fun:

Electrostimulation is a common thing with BDSM fun – so really this account won’t be about that. I wanna strip back that layer because we have seriously enjoyed using the Flick Duo from a vanilla PoV just as much as kink.

It took time to learn where and what worked for us to finally complete the circuit. In case you are completely new, to complete the circuit – one pad will be on me and the other on my OH, when we connect, we then can feel the tingles.

We took the time to learn where works best where we could really let go and enjoy each other without worrying if the pads would disconnect. Body fluids and body hair are issues here mainly. Both will cause the pads to loosen and eventually fall off, even if they managed to grip on in the first place.

We find the best way to achieve this is just under his balls, on his perineum, and on the far downside of my vulva, near my entrance. Here is by far the most successful spot for us both to benefit and holy Jesus, does it work!!!

It literally turns my husband’s cock into a tingly g-spot homing device, something I/we never thought would be achievable from Electrostimulation but turns out, it very much is <3

The main reason the placement here works is that there is less hair on my husband’s perineum than there is on the rest of him and where it was placed on me means it doesn’t come loose because of body fluids.

Fun fact: We both can tolerate it on higher levels separately than we can when we complete the circuit. Still not sure why but it’s fun pushing the levels higher together and seeing what we can get to.

Electrostimulation wasn’t actually something I ever thought could bring us closer together in a vanilla sense. Like we have fun with it from an evil kink point of view but if you had told me at the start, that it could enhance things from a non- kink point of view. I would never have believed you!

In the “What is Erotic ElectroStimulation?” post, I talked more about the sensations you can feel during electrostim play so you can read about those here <3

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From a user perspective – I really can’t fault the Flick Duo! Honestly, it is so user friendly! The dual-channel means you can actually use up to 4 pads at a time. Keep in mind you will always need to have a pad from each channel on each other to complete the circuit. For example – here is the Flick Duo in your hand and from one side/channel you have two pads. One needs to go on you and the other on your partner and the same with the other side if you want to complete a circuit. You can, of course, use a channel each. Each is completely different so I could receive power 15 and pulsating while my OH goes up to 25 on static.

The biggest thing here is IT IS INSTANT SHUT OFF!! <3 Love this! This is a game-changer because it guarantees safe play with a no worry switch 😀

The Electratim Flick Duo is USB rechargeable and the charge lasts forever.

Honestly, I cannot recommend Electrostimulation enough – We both can’t. Adds a completely new dimension to our playtime regardless if it is kink or not!.

You can get your very own kit from ElectraStim here

Please note: I am not a medical professional. These are my personal thoughts and experiences.  Please do not use electrical stimulation devices above the waist. If you have a pacemaker or have any health problems you feel may be affected by the use of an estim device, do not use one and please contact a medical professional for advice first.

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No affiliates are used in this post. It is not sponsored and as always, all thoughts are my own.

 

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1 Comment

oxyfromsg September 26, 2020 at 9:45 am

ohh love this. Really intresting that you both can take a higher level seperate.

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