“I water you, you water me; we grow together.” – Brandon Nembhard.
When I spotted this week’s Kink of the Week was all about washing, I just had to pen some thoughts on it, mainly because I find it hot AF.
Being washed or washing someone isn’t something I was always into. In past relationships, any time I ever showered or bathed with someone there was no real washing involved. We were both in there for one reason and one reason only, to get damn right dirty before we got clean. If truth be told, that was exactly the same way things were with my OH too, for many years.
I am not really sure when that changed but it has. Now, we frequently shower and wash together as well as each other. I won’t say this is a weekly thing, though sometimes it can happen that way.
I love it when my OH washes me – well more specifically when he washes my hair. He really puts so much effort into the process, far more than I do myself and I really feel pampered. He will also happily wash me too – except my skin is really sensitive and sometimes, I can find it a little too much. However, in the rare times, I do put on fake tan, his scrub ups usually give me streak-free application lol. I am pretty certain washing me isn’t a kink of his – I think he enjoys it more from a caring point of view.
Me, however, as much as I enjoying washing him as a caring thing, it very much gets me off too. I love it. I love feeling his skin under my fingers as I wash him. I love watching the bubbles run down his body and I adore the patterns the water makes on his body as it moves through his body hair. In fact, I enjoy that so much that I love to watch him in the shower too. I enjoy watching each of the muscles of his body changed shape as he twists and turns as he washes.
Recently, he allowed me to take some snaps of him in the shower, I shared another one here… Here’s another angle. Yum 😀