Full disclaimer before I continue – I know there are sooooo many posts floating around saying you should be this and do that. I want to say that my thoughts are 100% mine. I am always me on my site and I am not influenced by the thoughts of others. My beliefs are firmly set in stone – you should always be your best self and love unconditionally (yes I am one of those saps) and a massive fuck off to those who have such an issue with either of two things. We are here for a very short time.
Be you and fuck anyone else who has an issue with that! <3
Wow. April actually flew in comparison to March. All the days are muddled together – days flow into nights and back to days without me actually really realising the time. I literally have gotten properly dressed maybe three times over the last month. As you saw on Twitter, I am pretty much living in my OH’s boxers and one of his t-shirts, braless and living my best comfortable life. I think I am gonna die when I end up having to wear a bra again 🤣
Our lockdown isn’t so different really. I saw a post/tweet that the divorce rates are gonna go up because of Covid19. I guess folks who are married, that live separate lives usually have to put up each other and realise they can’t stand each other… Isn’t that sad? I guess probably beneficial for them in the long run. I personally don’t see much difference with us… If anything, it’s brought us closer. (I say that writing this post listening to him snore and plotting wanting to strangle him🤣).
So sex blogging update for April.
April saw the blogging community tore apart, in a time where we should all be together, supporting each other. It’s absolutely heartbreaking to see long term friendship disintegrate.
There are so many posts written about what’s happening that I really only tipped the iceberg in my SinfulSunday post. I wanted to send love and support to my fellow bloggers. And if you have no idea where to look then I am gonna link them all below but it really starts here.
I am very much for love conquers all. You don’t need to love every Tom, Dick (maybe 🤔) or Harry… But learn to understand, learn to be tolerant, learn to respect, and learn to love those around you. The world is big enough for us all and it’s utterly shitty, disgusting, and downright nasty to be so horrible to others. You feel just as much as they do. You hurt as much as they do… Or do you? I try to be understanding of everyone. Don’t get me wrong, I totally fuck up… ALL THE TIME. But it’s how I react to those fucks ups that make the difference. Own your words! And I am still left wondering why someone wrote that post in the first place. This same someone who was going to be around all these people they were so horrible and disrespectful to if this Covid 19 hadn’t taken over.. In fact, many people.
I am a true believer of the quote –
“Give it time… The weak in character always get tired of pretending. Their true colors will show.”
~ Steve Maraboli
Since I wrote the above apparently said post and website has been deleted… so I guess the time came 😉
Anyway, enough of my ramblings – #SoSS posts are all about supporting fellow bloggers in the community and this month I am dedicating my post completely to Trans folks and specifically to those who wrote posts supporting them. <3
Nillin from Mx Nillin:
Quenby from QueerdoConfusion: