I love lace!
Would I go as far as saying I have a lace kink? Mmmm, I’m not so sure.
For me, it really boils down to what kind of mood I am in and what kind of play we are about to indulge in if, of course, I am talking about bedroom wear. For day to day undies, you will most likely (90% of the time) find me a lace banded thong (which you’ll see here), completely cotton so it is super comfy and that band of lace, which sits on my hips, adds that hint of feminine sexiness which I like. I don’t like to wear completely lace underwear all day because truthfully, I spend more time with hands down my pants and pulling them outta my crotch than is publicly acceptable. 🙈
Since Covid19 and lockdown, I have been pretty much underwear free though, both knickers and my bra. When I do wear any, I end up stealing my OH’s boxers and one of his t-shirts. I am comfortable and at the same time close to him. There is something so sexy about knowing his junk was in these at one point and now I am wearing them, thinking all sorts! In fact, I would class that a million times sexier than lace.
When it comes to bedroom wear, I will always opt for latex, wet look, or fishnet. I feel sexiest in these. They please my kinky heart in a way lace never will. I feel powerful, though it may be an act, those materials always give me the confidence boost I need to pretend to be powerful . Sadly, lace just doesn’t have that same effect. I do, however, own a lace-trimmed corset which is made out faux leather and lace and I adore that piece. (Check it out here)
My OH, I would say prefers me in lace. I may have to go quiz him and fill in his thoughts in a few minutes.
Well, it turns out I was wrong… He actually prefers me in cotton. Like my day to day undies because he said all those fancy lingerie pieces stop him from being able to feel me through the fabric. For bedroom wear though, he will usually request me in a lacey set – yanno, a bra, stockings, french knickers and some heels. But to be perfectly honest, it isn’t very often that happens. If we are kinky playing, he usually prefers me in just a pair of knickers. Ones he can feel me through and be able to pull to the side easily. Fun fact: he loves to leave them on one leg throughout.
So I guess lace isn’t loved as much as I originally thought!
Which do you prefer – lacey shorts or me in my OH’s boxers?
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Like you I have been underwear free . . . for over a month or so now . . . but I do love lace. Not for every-day wear, because of the lack-of comfort factor, as you also say, but for “special nights out” it does help set-the-mood I think.
I know you’ve coloured them green in your photo, but I love the look of the pattern on your knickers!!!
Xxx – K
I have – they are actually an orangey colour… I loved how grungey looking the turquoise is! x
Lace is wonderful and sexy to look at, especially on your fabulous bottom. Cotton can be sexy too, more day to day, for instance your SS post #448, and definitely more fun to touch. I’ll go along with 0H, love sexy lingerie, but in bed I will go for those river island boy shorts any day. Oh, by the way, I am not familiar with the yanno bra, hint hint.
LOL – they are actually his shorts I have on! And a yanno bra is an Irish thing, Elliott 😉
I like skin! But lace can be very sexy. I bought my Queen a lace dress that she would wear for sexy times and twice wore to fetish nights. Damned sexy!! See through but toned down! One of my favourite outfits on her.
Hands down I prefer the boxer and t-shirt look! It’s sexy as fuck :p
Lol – Thanks Floss 😉 x
You loo fabulous in whatever you wear! But I like the green lace the best – very pretty!
You look great in both!
First, you look fabulous in pretty much anything you put on. Second, if I don’t have to work, I go sans any type of underwear. If I leave the house for other reasons, I’ll skip the underwear and just put on a bra.
Underwear free is the way to be! Especially while the world burns around us! I love this post and I think lace is woven into my wardrobe much the same way: situationally.
I like both! It’s like you say, can depend on the mood and both look great on you!
I love it ALL!
It’s funny isn’t it. I got my knickers in a twist over lace too, assuming everyone preferred lace because it’s sexier…turns out that’s not true at all! I mean, you’re really sexy in lace but those shorts on you are just