I love lace!
Would I go as far as saying I have a lace kink? Mmmm, I’m not so sure.
For me, it really boils down to what kind of mood I am in and what kind of play we are about to indulge in if, of course, I am talking about bedroom wear. For day to day undies, you will most likely (90% of the time) find me a lace banded thong (which you’ll see here), completely cotton so it is super comfy and that band of lace, which sits on my hips, adds that hint of feminine sexiness which I like. I don’t like to wear completely lace underwear all day because truthfully, I spend more time with hands down my pants and pulling them outta my crotch than is publicly acceptable. 🙈
Since Covid19 and lockdown, I have been pretty much underwear free though, both knickers and my bra. When I do wear any, I end up stealing my OH’s boxers and one of his t-shirts. I am comfortable and at the same time close to him. There is something so sexy about knowing his junk was in these at one point and now I am wearing them, thinking all sorts! In fact, I would class that a million times sexier than lace.
When it comes to bedroom wear, I will always opt for latex, wet look, or fishnet. I feel sexiest in these. They please my kinky heart in a way lace never will. I feel powerful, though it may be an act, those materials always give me the confidence boost I need to pretend to be powerful . Sadly, lace just doesn’t have that same effect. I do, however, own a lace-trimmed corset which is made out faux leather and lace and I adore that piece. (Check it out here)
My OH, I would say prefers me in lace. I may have to go quiz him and fill in his thoughts in a few minutes.
Well, it turns out I was wrong… He actually prefers me in cotton. Like my day to day undies because he said all those fancy lingerie pieces stop him from being able to feel me through the fabric. For bedroom wear though, he will usually request me in a lacey set – yanno, a bra, stockings, french knickers and some heels. But to be perfectly honest, it isn’t very often that happens. If we are kinky playing, he usually prefers me in just a pair of knickers. Ones he can feel me through and be able to pull to the side easily. Fun fact: he loves to leave them on one leg throughout.
So I guess lace isn’t loved as much as I originally thought!
Which do you prefer – lacey shorts or me in my OH’s boxers?