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Solo Shower Sex – My favourite way to Self Care #SB4MH #MentalHealthAwareness

posted by LSB October 16, 2019 7 Comments

Solo Shower Sex – My favourite way to Self Care – my readers must think I live in the shower. I would if I could, but sadly I don’t. I am, however, advocate for showers, especially sexy ones.

My most favourite way to self-care is to connect my phone to the Bluetooth system in the bedroom, grab a glass of red (Malbec, Shiraz or Merlot, if you are interested) and hop in for a piping hot shower and have a dance! If the mood takes me, I’ll bring some toys with me too. There is no pattern to what I bring, sometimes I will root out all the suction cup dildos I own and stick them all the wall and enjoy each one in my very own solo orgy or sometimes, sometimes I bring just a dildo.

That one dildo that I know will get me off, without the need for vibrations. The one that I need time to get there, but when I do, it’s so explosive I need to recover. This can happen when I have a free house, or when there are no small humans around so sadly those showers are a very rare occasion.

As I have mentioned before, I am lucky to have quite a large shower… I could easily fit 4 people in it, meaning it is quite long. While in there, I love to lie down while I play and I love to feel the water beat against my skin as I get off. While I very much enjoy orgasming, it is actually the post-orgasm bit I enjoy the most!

This evening’s shower orgasm was caused by my Godemiche Ambit and my Swan Wand. It was strong. I haven’t come since Tuesday and my body needed release. As I mentioned above, I always have music on – it very much varies what I listen to but as I lay there in a post-orgasmic haze, the water that was hitting my skin seems to be in correct rhythm to Kolsch’s remix of London Grammar’s Hell to the Liars. It was if I felt each drop hit my skin, and no, it wasn’t the wine. I have work tomorrow so I didn’t bring a glass with me, this time.

This week is Mental Health Awareness Week and this is the reason I have chosen to write about how I self care. I am not usually one to blog about mental wellbeing, there are loads of bloggers who do though (and they can be found here). I have not been diagnosed with an actual “title” so I feel I can’t really blog about it – however, I am most definitely an anxiety sufferer. You could probably throw in a dash of another title in there too – as I have had quite a traumatic childhood but I won’t! That side of me is well buried. The anxiety, however, rares its ugly head quite often and as much as I love my blog and all the social media aspects of it, Jesus, it doesn’t half cause me anxiety. I find I can go from being ok to completely triggered in a matter of minutes. Twitter, as much as I love it and all the people who keep me sane on there, it can equally make me feel ill. It triggers feelings of self-worth – “if such and such can juggle all this, then why the hell can’t I?; “oh god, I have missed a deadline again”, “Oh I really wanna write and get involved with that but what am I really? A reviewer? No one really gives two shits what I want to say regarding that”. Jesus my heart is racing after typing all that.

Solo Shower Sex

And that all there is the main reason my beloved BDSM Diaries section is sparse – simply because I feel I am not good enough to portray my own thoughts and feelings on the subject.

But maybe now I have actually gotten these words out? Maybe now I can claim those words and write what I feel.

Wow, yanno, that must have been one hell of a shower that caused all this to spill out. I am a true believer in the therapeutic healing powers of water. That again, I believe must stim back to from when I was a child. I used to spend hours in my local swimming pool. As I type that I also remember sitting in the pool in Portugal watching the raindrops hit the water – I think that moment really has been the most relaxed I have felt in many years. I long to go back.

So to go back to why I started writing all this? Solo Shower Sex – My favourite way to Self Care! Orgasms make me feel good, they give me release. Water helps me relax. It calms me. I feel I can breathe better. The mix of the two is the perfect way to self-care for me and I’m lazy – it’s an easy clean up if I do bring toys with me 😉

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You can also read other pieces I have wrote on Mental Health here
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7 Comments

slave sindee October 17, 2019 at 4:50 am

love it a sexy shower to improve one’s health and get clean
nicely done

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Trip Xavier October 17, 2019 at 3:11 pm

I have 2 toys that stay suctioned to the shower wall. I absolutely love the time spent in the shower as well. I too, spent inordinate hours in a pool as a child. I love the beach….mostly for the water and the motion and energy of the waves. Yes, a little for the many scantily clad bodies, men and women, but mostly for the water.
My shower toys are an 8″ x 1-1/2″ dildo, an 18″ double headed dildo for depth and an 18″ x 1″ spiraled hose dildo that goes all the way in so I can feel it by my stomach. There really is something about the water and sex. Thank you for sharing this. Now I just want to go shower and peg myself. Only one difference between us…I’m not allowed to cum, I can only edge. I don’t mind though because edging is cleansing for me…and makes me energized.

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Marie Rebelle October 17, 2019 at 8:28 pm

Thank you for sharing this tiny insight into your life, LSB, and please do so more. You have EVERY right to write about it, and I seriously mean that: EVERY RIGHT. You have the right to share your story. What happened to you, is your story, and shouldn’t be compared to that of others. Please keep on sharing. Love ya!

Rebel xox

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LSB October 18, 2019 at 4:07 pm

Thank you so much for such a lovely comment, Marie. Honestly !! All the squishes and love back to you too Xx

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May More October 18, 2019 at 9:22 pm

Fab post LSB – so glad u have linked it to sb4mh – self care is so important and often put to one side because we are busy or feel others are more important.
And anxiety is a bitch – label or not it rears it’s head xx

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kisungura October 18, 2019 at 9:40 pm

Oh LSB, I could squeeze you right now (if you’re ok with that of course!) I’m playing catch up here but your post struck such a chord with me and really echoed how I’ve been feeling this week, so I wanted to thank you for sharing this. I hope you could find it within yourself to write a little more like this, although I respect it was uncomfortable for you. I, too, find water so therapeutic and think I should maybe be taking some toys into the shower with me too!

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Cara Thereon October 19, 2019 at 11:32 pm

I think your voice is just as important when it comes to things like this, but I can understand that feeling completely. It’s so hard not to feel like everyone else is doing it better, but the truth is what you’ve written here is perfect. Thank you for sharing it.

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